In My Own Arms

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"In My Own Arms" was born from the quiet, often unseen world of caregiving — the long days, the financial strain, the emotional wear, and the physical exhaustion that can reshape every corner of life. Inspired by my 14-year journey caring for my late wife, who lived with early-onset Alzheimer’s, the song tells the truth about the toll caregiving can take on our health, our relationships, and our sense of self.

But it also celebrates the unexpected gifts that can grow out of that hard soil — patience, humility, kindness, grace, and perhaps most importantly, the realization that loving and caring for ourselves is not selfish, but essential.

With an intimate, Allison Krauss–style arrangement of fingerpicked acoustic guitar, gentle fiddle swells, and warm harmonies, this ballad invites listeners into a space of reflection, empathy, and quiet resilience. It’s a tribute to every caregiver who has walked this path — and to the love that endures through it all.

In My Own Arms
G major (bridge shifts to E minor)

[Intro – Instrumental] (Fiddle & guitar)
G Cmaj7 G D/F#
Em Am C D

[Verse 1]
G Cmaj7 G D/F#
I sold the piano to pay for the bills
Em Am C D
The roof needs repair, but the medicine’s filled
G C G Bm
My friends stopped calling, they don’t understand
Em C Am D G
The world grows small in the palm of my hand

[Verse 2]
G G/F# Em C
My body is tired, my back aches at night
Am C D
But you need the help, so I hold you tight
G G/F# Em C
Learned to be gentle when tempers arise
Am C D G
Found a deep kindness that money can’t buy

[Bridge] (Shift to E minor, build in dynamics)
Em C G D
I’ve lost some things I can’t get back
Am C G D
Pieces of me left down this winding track
Em C Am B7
But grace grew wild in the hardest ground
C G/B Am D
And in my own arms, I finally found

[Verse 3] (Return to G major)
G C G
That loving myself was the first step to take
Em C D
To give without losing, to bend not to break
G C G
You’ve shown me a patience I’d never known
Em C D G
And a heart that is softer, and stronger, and grown

[Outro – Instrumental] (Fiddle & guitar reprise)
G Cmaj7 G D/F#
Em Am C D
G C G Bm
Em C Am D G
(Final fiddle note holds as guitar gently fades)

Copyright: Lyrics, music, arrangement, and production © 2025 James M Sims. All Rights Reserved.

About James M Sims
James brings nearly five decades of professional experience as a technology and strategy executive in industries including food and beverage manufacturing, grocery retail and distribution, worldwide augmentative staffing, heavy construction, home building, structural engineering, transportation, and healthcare. His creative pursuits have been equally diverse, spanning a career as a black-and-white fine art photographer, furniture designer and builder, custom Stratocaster guitar craftsman, culinary content creator, and digital marketing professional.

Following a 14-year journey caring for his late wife, who lived with early-onset Alzheimer’s, James discovered his purpose for this stage of life as a senior care advocate and journalist. His mission is to create meaningful content for caregivers and their families—through long-form and op-ed articles, photography, videos, and songs—offering insight, support, and a voice for those navigating the challenges of care.

Cielito Lindo, situated within Rancho Los Labradores, is a warm, integrated senior-living community in the heart of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. Offering full-spectrum care — from independent living to memory care and hospice — it blends heartfelt hospitality with beautiful grounds, colonial-style architecture, and compassionate, practical services tailored to each resident’s needs.

Rancho Los Labradores is a master-planned, gated retirement haven known for its elegant villas, lush gardens, mountain views, and a vibrant yet serene pace of life. Together, they create a setting where comfort, community, and quality of life flourish in every season.

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